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Thoughts, musings, things that piss me off, how to write fiction

Longing for Passion

Hi friends, Let’s talk about passion. Passion – description: Passion is the best engine we have. Anyone who has ever created something from scratch, or reached a goal, and did it because it was burning inside his or her belly, knows what passion can do. Passion also drives us to find and bond with one, special person. We call this… Read more →

No More Virgin Sex!

Hi Girlfriends, There’s an axiom accepted among erotica writers that if you want to have great, exciting sex, you must be a virgin, or very close to it. Ergo – good sex only comes to those with very little experience. What these writers are telling us, is that if you want to be excited about men, about sex, then you… Read more →

Who is she?

Hi Friends,   So here are some important questions to ask yourself when you’re building a character. Imagine this: You are a woman in labor. You are fully dilated and your contractions are coming one minute apart. One more push, you scream with the pain, and she is out. The umbilical cord is cut and she draws her first breath. She… Read more →

The ONLY Way to Edit your Book

Hi my friends,   Today I want to share with you my thoughts on how to edit your manuscript. A lot of people will teach you how to write, how to come up with ideas, how to develop a plot, how to write dialogue, how to plant your ass in the chair every day and write, and all that good… Read more →

Just Say No to 3TO

Hi Girlfriend, So today I want to bitch about one of the most common, and hated, descriptions in an erotica book, ever. It goes like this: (male:) Thrust, thrust, thrust. (female:) screaming orgasm. That’s it. Essentially, it’s a sex act that includes a very short session of thrusts of penis into vagina, immediately followed by an orgasm. No other stimulation. Perhaps… Read more →