Hi friends, Let’s talk about passion. Passion – description: Passion is the best engine we have. Anyone who has ever created something from scratch, or reached a goal, and did it because it was burning inside his or her belly, knows what passion can do. Passion also drives us to find and bond with one, special person. We call this… Read more →
Hi Girlfriends, There’s an axiom accepted among erotica writers that if you want to have great, exciting sex, you must be a virgin, or very close to it. Ergo – good sex only comes to those with very little experience. What these writers are telling us, is that if you want to be excited about men, about sex, then you… Read more →
Hi Friends, Today I want to give you some tips about becoming a better writer. You peeked. You already know I have only one tip to give you. But boy, is it a REALLY GOOD one. Try it. 10 Tips, here we go: Read more →
Hi Friends, So here are some important questions to ask yourself when you’re building a character. Imagine this: You are a woman in labor. You are fully dilated and your contractions are coming one minute apart. One more push, you scream with the pain, and she is out. The umbilical cord is cut and she draws her first breath. She… Read more →
Hi my friends, Today I want to share with you my thoughts on how to edit your manuscript. A lot of people will teach you how to write, how to come up with ideas, how to develop a plot, how to write dialogue, how to plant your ass in the chair every day and write, and all that good… Read more →
Hi Girlfriend, So today I want to bitch about one of the most common, and hated, descriptions in an erotica book, ever. It goes like this: (male:) Thrust, thrust, thrust. (female:) screaming orgasm. That’s it. Essentially, it’s a sex act that includes a very short session of thrusts of penis into vagina, immediately followed by an orgasm. No other stimulation. Perhaps… Read more →
Hi friends, You’re curious about erotica, or you’re already familiar with it and like it. And you are looking for well-written, hot, writing. So I’ll try to help you. I write erotica for mature, thinking women, and you’ll be able to order my book pretty soon . Read more →
Hi Friends, We’ve discussed the difficulties of sustaining a long-term, working monogamy. We talked about how the many forces that drive us apart. If you haven’t seen it yet, look here: The problem with Monogamy and here: Flooded with Chemicals. But not all is bad. There is hope, and it’s a bright and beautiful sun in an otherwise bleak sky.… Read more →
Hi friends, In part 1 we talked about the reasons for serial monogamy – which is NOT monogamy as we know it. But what does it look like inside our brains? Yeah, okay, I’m going to talk about chemistry, but it’s love chemistry, so listen up. Read more →
Hi dear friends, Today I start talking about monogamy. And the first thing I want to say, is that it’s not natural. Yup, you heard me. So let’s do it. Let’s touch on one of the things that many of us are not allowed to talk about. How incredibly tough is this thing called monogamy. Read more →
